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    This Family Won’t Ever Take a Proper Picture

    October 20, 2022 - By Rachelle ♡

    I’ve officially accepted the fact that our family will probably never take a completely normal photo together. And honestly? That’s probably what makes our memories even funnier. We visited Sky Ranch Tagaytay recently, fully intending to take nice family pictures like normal people. But somehow, our family photos always end…

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    Letting Go of Perfect Days

    October 16, 2022 - By Rachelle ♡

    I used to believe a “good day” needed to look productive from beginning to end. Perfect routine.Perfect energy.Perfect mindset. And whenever life didn’t go according to plan, I immediately felt like I failed somehow. But lately, I’ve been trying to let go of that mindset slowly. Because honestly? Most real…

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    For the First Time, I Finally Said What I Really Felt

    September 18, 2022 - By Rachelle ♡

    Growing up as the eldest child comes with a kind of pressure that’s difficult to explain unless you’ve lived through it yourself. You become responsible early. You learn how to stay composed.How to meet expectations.How to become the “strong one” even when nobody explicitly tells you to. And after years…

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  • Soft Living

    Making Life Feel Lighter

    August 14, 2022 - By Rachelle ♡

    Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about softness. Not weakness. Not avoidance. Just softness in the way I live my life now. I think after years of constantly surviving emotionally, I reached a point where I no longer wanted life to feel heavy all the time. So slowly, I started…

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    Some Songs Feel Like Emotional Time Capsules

    July 24, 2022 - By Rachelle ♡

    I think one of the strangest things about growing older is realizing how strongly certain songs become attached to specific memories and seasons of life. Sometimes all it takes is hearing one familiar intro and suddenly you remember: And honestly? That feeling always catches me off guard a little. Lately,…

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  • Growth & Learning

    Why I Stopped Trying to Fix Everything at Once

    July 17, 2022 - By Rachelle ♡

    I used to approach self-improvement like an emergency. Every time life felt messy, I immediately wanted to “fix” everything all at once. New routines.New goals.New schedules.Huge expectations. And honestly, it always left me emotionally exhausted. I think I spent years believing growth had to be dramatic to be meaningful. But…

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    I’m Trying to Take My Health More Seriously Now

    July 10, 2022 - By Rachelle ♡

    Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about how easy it is to neglect your health while trying to survive adulthood. Especially when life constantly feels busy. There’s always another responsibility. Another problem to solve. Another emotionally overwhelming season to get through. And honestly? For a long time, I kept putting…

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    Watching My Child Grow Feels Emotional Sometimes

    June 19, 2022 - By Rachelle ♡

    Lately, I’ve been noticing how quickly my child is growing. The small changes. The new interests.The growing curiosity.The confidence slowly forming little by little. And honestly, it’s been emotional for me in ways I didn’t expect. I think when you become a parent, you don’t fully realize how deeply you’ll…

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  • Family Life

    Bulacan Summer Escapade with Medcoy

    May 23, 2022 - By Rachelle ♡

    After months of emotional exhaustion and overwhelming routines, this simple summer getaway honestly felt like a much-needed pause from real life. We spent the day at Floating Sanctuary in Bulacan together with people from Medcoy, and for once, everything just felt light again. No heavy conversations. No stressful routines. No…

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  • Growth & Learning

    Healing Doesn’t Always Look Productive

    May 22, 2022 - By Rachelle ♡

    I think one of the biggest misconceptions about healing is that people expect it to look inspiring all the time. Like growth should always appear productive, organized, or motivational. But honestly? Some seasons of healing feel messy. Quiet. Emotionally exhausting. There are days where healing simply looks like: And I…

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